The owner of the construction industry appeared at the construction site. He did not want to give a speech today, and he did not want to punish the betel nut eaters. But when they heard this question, the workers in the audience were terrified: "What, do you want to punish those who vomit betel nut juice?" "What, could it be that I was caught eating betel nut without wearing a mask yesterday?" Obviously, everyone in the audience looked at each other. "I mean, someone who eats betel nut raises their hand, and someone who eats it, I'll give you 1,000 yuan." He raised his hand so fast, he laughed. Even I, who have not eaten betel nut, want to eat it. "Have you got all the 1,000 yuan?" After handing out the banknotes, the construction boss said with a smile, "Okay, before leaving get off work today, if you don't eat betel nut, the 1,000 yuan is yours, or you will have to pay it back to me."
Is there anyone in the end? No, not because Photo Restoration Service everyone is lying. But because all those who eat betel nut are respected, no one wants to eat it today. The conversation that day went something like this: "Ah, why don't you come with one?" Other construction workers joked deliberately. "Don't eat, don't eat! 1,000 yuan I want to put in my pocket." (Taiwanese) He patted the purse on his ass. Only one extra 1,000 yuan seems to make the wallet feel fuller. (At least he thinks so.) If you are willing to be friends with them, I assure you that the people who work are definitely the most trustworthy people. So he will never eat betel nut today, because he has already promised you. Although I don't know if he will continue to abstain from betel nut "tomorrow", I don't know if he will continue to abstain from betel nut "next year". But I know that I have successfully "helped people change their behavior", and then if the boss asks, "How old did you start eating betel nut?" I can't drop" the inner words of the workers.
As long as the worker is willing to speak his mind, then the worker has the intention of "wanting to quit betel nut". His heart will start to ask for your advice, and he will tell you: "He came to do hard labor for the tuition of his children. But it was really too hard, trying to refresh himself, and it was troublesome to smoke a cigarette, so he started to eat betel nut. ” At this time, he has opened his ears and is willing to listen to your advice (this is a big step). But is it okay to give advice right away? inappropriate. What you should give him is "options" and let him "choose on his own."